Family Comes “As Is”

by Keith Kriegler on December 8, 2009

Do you ever wonder what it would be like if you could shop for a family, like holiday gifts?

With the holidays approaching, we are going to be spending more time with the people we call family. These people make up our inner circle; mom, dad, brothers, sisters, aunts and uncles. And, no matter how close you are to your family, together, they make an eclectic bunch.

Although most of us get along with our families, we all have one or two people (hopefully not too many more) in the group who we wonder how they got into the family. While I get along with my family, we certainly have our differences, I think about how we could be raised by the same parents, in the same house, and yet all turn out so differently.

Since I don’t have the answer, I have come to accept, and appreciate, that they are my family, and in times of need and joy, they are there for me. If you’re lucky, they’re the people who tend to be the most forgiving.

While we don’t get a choice as to which mom, dad, or brother we’d like, the people we call family are the ones we get to celebrate the holidays with throughout our lives. Given the nice, comfortable feeling that provides, accepting family ‘as is’ can be a good way to find the joy in the holiday season.

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Reaching into Dad’s Wallet

by Keith Kriegler on December 1, 2009

The roles of dads have changed dramatically over the past ten years, and the idea of a ‘traditional’ family doesn’t exist as it once did.

Today, there are many types of dads – step-dad, single dad, stay at home dad, commuter dad, and working dad. As dads, we’re spending a lot of money on our families and especially on our kids. Our children are the one priority where we tend to loosen our wallets the most so we are able to give our kids the things they need and want.

However, many marketers haven’t realized how much spending dads are actually doing these days, and are missing a big opportunity by not talking to us. Very few brands market to dads in a tone and manner that we can relate to, and that’s a missed opportunity for them to create engaging, relevant connections with consumers and increase their market share.

Here are a few examples of places I recently visited and spent money on my family:
• Best Buy and Verizon to look into their family plans
• Costco, Best Buy, and Abt Appliances to look at TV’s
• Grocery stores
• The Gap, Forever XXI, Pink

Research shows that the top leisure activities dads like to do with their kids are playing around the house, playing computer/video games, going to the movies, playground, reading and eating out.

If brands want to capture their share of our wallet, and spending on our kids, then it would be beneficial if they talked to us in ‘dad’ terms. Communicating with us in ways that speak to our feeling of pride, sense of responsibility with fun and humor will get our attention and our dollars.

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Giving Thanks

November 26, 2009

Giving Thanks
When my daughter was 7, I asked her how long she thought that we would know each other, and her response was, “I don’t know, ‘til I’m 12 or something.”
After a good laugh, I told her that we were going to know each other a lot longer than a few years; [...]

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Living in Grattitude

November 24, 2009

As Thanksgiving approaches, it’s the one non-religious holiday where we can all take the time to really reflect about what we’re thankful for in our lives.
Living in Gratitude is a positive, healthy way to feel good today, and every day.
Here are some of the things I’m grateful for:
• We have a President who is [...]

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Our Selective Memory

November 19, 2009

Recently, I cut my hand pretty badly, and it took a couple of dishtowels wrapped in a tight knot around my hand to stop the bleeding. The next day, I was with my daughter and we went to an emergency clinic to get the cut treated so that I didn’t get an infection.
After the visit, [...]

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“So, You’re Her Dad”

November 17, 2009

Going to my see my daughter participate in events gives me a great sense of pride and joy but also brings with it an uneasy feeling.
Since I’m not involved with her daily activities, at school and otherwise, I’m not able to build a relationship with her friends, parents or teachers.  Moms, for the most part, [...]

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Is My Kid Too ‘Sweet?’

November 13, 2009

Cookies, candy, ice cream, caramel corn, soda, anything with sugar, and she’s clamoring for it.  When I ask her what she wants for dinner, she says “sugar!”  At meal times, we constantly have the “benefits of protein versus dessert” conversation.  But she’s a smart kid, and decides to eat less at dinner to save room [...]

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Texting Counts (Not Really)

November 10, 2009

Does ‘miss u, ttyl’ count as a conversation?  Not to me.
My 12 year-old daughter has a cell phone, and its purpose is to keep in touch with her friends, family and me.  As a single father, we’re not together as frequently as I’d like, so our daily phone calls have special importance and are something [...]

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The Frosty Smile

November 10, 2009

Money is tight right now, but we still want to do nice things for the ones we love.
Last week, I was talking to my daughter, and while she’s a good student, she was having difficulty in one subject.  When I picked her up for our weekly dinner, she told me that she made great progress [...]

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Life Is Not About Killing Yourself

November 2, 2009

Have you ever felt like you just keep working and working and you’re just not getting as far as you’d like. I’m not sure why it’s in our nature to feel like unless we’re killing ourselves with work we’re not making progress.
When I hit a wall, I need to feel good about what I’m [...]

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